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How to Identify Your Child's Learning Challenges Early: A Step-by-Step Guide

Writer: Kathy CousineauKathy Cousineau

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As a parent, watching your child struggle in school can be overwhelming. Maybe they’re finding it hard to keep up with their classmates, or perhaps homework sessions feel like endless battles. These signs can be easy to dismiss or chalk up to developmental differences, but they might be indicators of an underlying learning challenge. The earlier these challenges are identified, the sooner your child can get the support they need to thrive.

This guide will walk you through the process of identifying learning challenges early on, emphasizing the importance of assessments like quizzes and evaluations. We’ll also show you how our “Understanding YOUR Child’s Learning Challenges Quiz” and the Roadmap to an Initial Evaluation can help you navigate this journey with confidence.


Why Early Identification Matters

Early identification of learning challenges is critical for several reasons:

  1. Academic Support: The sooner you identify a learning issue, the sooner your child can receive tailored academic support. This could mean accommodations, such as extra time on tests or specialized instruction, that make learning more accessible.

  2. Emotional Well-being: Children who struggle in school without understanding why can experience anxiety, low self-esteem, and frustration. Identifying the challenge early can prevent these negative feelings from compounding over time.

  3. Long-term Success: Early interventions can set the foundation for long-term academic success. Research shows that when learning disabilities are addressed in the early years, students are more likely to catch up to their peers and build the skills they need to succeed.


Signs Your Child May Have a Learning Challenge

Before diving into formal assessments, it’s important to understand some of the common signs that your child may have a learning challenge. Every child is unique, but here are a few red flags to look for:

  • Difficulty reading: If your child struggles to recognize letters, sound out words, or understand the meaning of what they read, this may be a sign of dyslexia or another reading-related disorder.

  • Trouble with writing: If handwriting is laborious or nearly illegible, and your child finds it difficult to express their thoughts on paper, dysgraphia may be a possibility.

  • Challenges with math: Children who have trouble understanding basic math concepts, recognizing numbers, or remembering math facts might be showing signs of dyscalculia.

  • Memory difficulties: Weaknesses in working memory can make it difficult for children to follow multi-step instructions or retain information for short periods of time.

  • Attention and focus issues: If your child finds it difficult to stay on task, follow instructions, or control impulses, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) could be at play.


For more detailed checklists of specific learning disabilities, you can check out our blogs on related topics like dyslexia, dysgraphia, dyscalculia, and ADHD. These resources will help you recognize key symptoms and patterns of each challenge.


Step-by-Step Guide to Early Identification

Step 1: Observe and Record Patterns

The first step in identifying any learning challenge is to pay close attention to your child’s behavior. Take notes on the difficulties you’re seeing—whether that’s in reading, writing, math, attention, or memory. Are these struggles persistent across different settings, such as at school and at home? Are there specific subjects or tasks where they seem to struggle more?

Keeping a log of your child’s challenges over time will help you gather the evidence you need to seek appropriate help later. It will also provide you with more clarity on whether these challenges are isolated or persistent, a crucial distinction when determining whether further assessment is needed.



Understanding YOUR Child's Learning Challenges Quiz results page with a colorful pie chart showing areas of concern such as reading skills, math skills, and attention, along with a message explaining that the quiz is a screening tool to help parents identify potential learning challenges. Includes My Happy Teacher's owl logo.

Our Understanding YOUR Child’s Learning Challenges Quiz is designed specifically for parents who suspect their child may have a learning challenge but aren’t sure where to start. 

The quiz assesses 11 different areas of learning, including reading, writing, math, and attention, and highlights areas of low, medium, and high concern.

The quiz is simple and will take about 10 minutes to complete. 

Once you complete the quiz, you’ll receive a detailed report outlining which areas you should be concerned about and where your child may need extra support. This can be a pivotal first step toward identifying learning challenges early.

By taking this quiz, parents are better prepared to approach schools or professionals for further evaluation with concrete data in hand. The quiz also connects parents to resources that explain each learning area in greater depth, so you can continue your journey with greater knowledge and understanding.


Step 3: Communicate with Teachers and School Staff

Once you have a clear understanding of your child’s struggles, it’s time to reach out to their teachers and school staff. Teachers spend hours with your child every day and can provide invaluable insight into their performance, behavior, and participation in class.

Schedule a meeting with your child’s teacher to discuss your concerns and any patterns you’ve noticed. Share the results of our Understaning YOUR Child’s Learning Challenges Quiz to give the teacher a better sense of where your child might need additional support. Teachers may also recommend a meeting with a school psychologist or special education staff for further evaluation.


Step 4: Pursue Formal Assessments

If your child’s struggles persist, and their teachers agree that further evaluation is needed, it’s time to request formal assessments through the school system. These assessments can help diagnose specific learning disabilities such as dyslexia, ADHD, or a language processing disorder.


At My Happy Teacher, we understand how daunting this process can be. That’s why we created the Roadmap to an Initial Evaluation, a step-by-step course that guides parents through the often complicated process of requesting an evaluation from their child’s school. The course covers how to write a formal request letter, what types of assessments are commonly used, and how to interpret the results.


Roadmap to an Initial Evaluation graphic featuring a winding road with steps like 'Put Your Thoughts Together' and 'Create & Send the Evaluation Request Letter.' Includes the My Happy Teacher logo with an owl illustration.

This roadmap also addresses what happens if your child qualifies for services under a 504 plan or an Individualized Education Program (IEP). These plans outline the specific accommodations and services your child will receive, tailored to their unique learning needs.


Step 5: Take Action with Early Intervention

Once a formal diagnosis is made, early intervention becomes the key to success. Whether your child qualifies for an IEP, a 504 plan, or private tutoring, the sooner these interventions are put in place, the better. At My Happy Teacher, we offer online tutoring and Parent IEP/504 Support Coaching to help guide families through the intervention process.

Our online tutoring services focus on providing targeted support for children with learning disabilities. Led by Kathy Cousineau, M.Ed., WDP, a Wilson Certified Dyslexia Practitioner with over 25 years of experience, our team is equipped to help students with reading, writing, and math challenges. Whether your child needs help with decoding, working memory, or executive functioning skills, our tutors can create a customized plan to meet their unique needs.

For more information on specific learning disabilities and how to support your child, check out some of our most helpful blog posts:

  • Understanding Executive Functioning Skills

  • Assistive Technology for Dyslexia Success

  • Auditory Processing Disorder

  • Nonverbal Learning Disability Checklist


Conclusion: Don’t Wait—Start Today

Early identification of your child’s learning challenges can be life-changing. It allows you to advocate for your child in a way that ensures they get the help they need. By taking the steps outlined in this guide—observing, using assessments like our Understanding YOUR Child’s Learning Challenges Quiz, communicating with teachers, pursuing formal evaluations, and engaging in early interventions—you’ll be setting your child up for a brighter, more successful future.

For more support, explore our resources and services at My Happy Teacher, where we specialize in helping families like yours every step of the way.



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