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Writer's pictureKathy Cousineau

Recognizing Weaknesses in Executive Functioning Skills: Signs & Examples

Updated: Aug 27

Colorful sticky notes with words like "Monitor," "Initiate," "Action Plans," and "Execute" scattered on a wooden table, alongside a pen. This image is perfect for a blog about recognizing weaknesses in executive functioning in children, focusing on signs and examples to help parents identify and address these challenges.

If you are coming here from our "Understanding YOUR Child's Learning Challenges" quiz to learn more about your child’s areas of concern, WELCOME!


  • Now that you've taken our brief quiz, below is a detailed checklist that will help you confirm if the area identified by the quiz is a significant concern. 

  • If you notice these signs, you may want to consider using the information as we guide you through the steps of requesting an initial evaluation from the school 


If you haven't yet taken our quiz

 

Staying organized and planning ahead can be tough for some children. It's like trying to pack for a camping trip without a list! They might forget things they need to bring to school, lose track of homework assignments, or struggle to keep their workspace tidy. This can make it hard to keep up with schoolwork and routines. There are ways to help them develop strategies for staying organized, like using checklists, planners, or color-coding their notebooks to visually separate subjects. Understanding and supporting your child's development involves recognizing areas where they may need extra help.


One crucial area of your child's development is Executive Functioning Skills. Executive functioning skills are the mental processes that help us manage everyday tasks, such as making plans, solving problems, and adapting to new situations.


Strong executive functioning skills are essential for paying attention, planning, organizing, and prioritizing tasks. They enable us to start tasks and stay focused on them until completion, make decisions, control our actions, and manage our emotions.


When your child has homework, their executive functioning skills help them figure out what to do first, stay focused on the task, and stay calm even if it's hard. Essentially, having strong executive functioning skills is like having a superpower that aids in success at school, at home, and in daily life.


 

To help you visualize and perhaps better understand and relate to children with weaknesses in executive functioning skills and the difficulties they present, we've chosen the dog as a symbol for children with these learning challenges.

Cartoon dog with a clipboard checklist around its neck, representing executive functioning skills.
This cheerful cartoon dog with a clipboard checklist demonstrates the importance of organization and task management for developing strong executive functioning skills.

Why we chose a dog to describe these students: 

Picture a dog learning a new trick – it takes patience, consistency, and plenty of treats! Children facing organizational challenges, much like dogs, can benefit from structured support and strategies to help them stay on track with their schoolwork and daily tasks.


 

Common Characteristics of Children with Weaknesses in Executive Functioning Skills


We've created this checklist to help you identify common signs of weaknesses in executive functioning skills in your child. It outlines common characteristics and provides real-life examples to illustrate these challenges. This guide can be an essential first step in recognizing the signs of weaknesses in executive functioning skills and seeking the appropriate support for your child.


Difficulty with Planning and Organizing:

  • Struggles to plan tasks or activities, often leading to disorganization and trouble completing assignments on time.

  • Example: Sarah struggles to plan her homework assignments, often forgetting due dates and losing track of materials needed for projects.


Poor Time Management:

  • Finds it hard to manage time effectively, resulting in difficulty prioritizing tasks and meeting deadlines.

  • Example: John frequently underestimates how long tasks will take and rushes to complete assignments at the last minute.


Trouble with Focus and Attention:

  • Has difficulty staying focused on tasks, easily becomes distracted, and is unable to sustain attention for extended periods.

  • Example: David has difficulty concentrating on his math homework, often getting distracted by noises or thoughts and taking much longer to finish assignments than his peers.


Impulsivity and Difficulty with Impulse Control:

  • Acts impulsively without thinking through consequences, often making decisions without considering the long-term effects.

  • Example: Emily frequently blurts out answers in class without raising her hand, sometimes interrupting the teacher or classmates.


Difficulty with Flexibility and Adaptability:

  • Finds it challenging to adapt to changes in plans or routines, becoming upset or frustrated when faced with unexpected situations.

  • Example: Michael becomes upset and refuses to participate in a group project when the assigned roles are changed at the last minute.


Poor Working Memory:

  • Struggles to hold and manipulate information in the mind while completing tasks, leading to forgetfulness and difficulty following instructions.

  • Example: Alex needs help remembering multi-step instructions from the teacher, often forgetting key details and needing reminders.


Trouble with Problem-Solving and Decision-Making:

  • Finds it hard to solve problems or make decisions independently, often seeking assistance from others or avoiding decision-making altogether.

  • Example: Emma struggles to decide which elective classes to take next semester, becoming overwhelmed by the options and unable to make a decision.


Difficulty with Self-Monitoring and Self-Regulation:

  • Struggles to monitor and regulate behavior, leading to impulsivity, emotional outbursts, or difficulty controlling emotions.

  • Example: Jason frequently interrupts his classmates during group discussions, unaware of how his behavior affects others.


Executive Dysfunction in Social Situations:

  • Has trouble understanding social cues or navigating social interactions, often misinterpreting others' intentions or responses.

  • Example: Lily misinterprets her friend's teasing as mean-spirited, becomes upset, and avoids social interactions with the group.


Difficulty with Task Initiation:

  • Finds it challenging to start tasks or projects independently, often procrastinating or avoiding tasks altogether.

  • Example: Thomas procrastinates starting his English essay, spending hours on his phone before finally beginning the assignment late at night. Sometimes, Thomas's teachers report that he will sit there and not start classwork unless someone sits beside him.

 
"Child with sticky notes on face and body, demonstrating challenges with executive functioning skills"

Weaknesses in executive functioning skills can impact various aspects of your child's daily life and academic performance, making it challenging to effectively manage tasks, regulate behavior, and navigate social situations.


If several of these signs are present and are significantly impacting your child, you may want to seek support from educators or professionals knowledgeable about strategies and supports to improve these skills in your child.


 

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